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Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep

Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep is a powerful organization that is also difficult to discuss. Working with NILMDTS has been an honor, yes. It is also heart-wrenching for all involved. I kept the application to join on my desk for a few years, willing myself to have the courage to fill it out and send it in for approval. I finally did, and I started participating after speaking with Aimee Bickers, who had already done 20 of these shoots when we spoke. I couldn’t imagine how she could have done that. Since that conversation, though, I find that I have done about 20 of these unbelieveably emotional shoots. And now Aimee has done over 40, while continuing to lead this organization locally in an admirably tireless fashion.

And then there’s Tara Bristol, at UNC, and Marie Peluso, at Duke, who give so much time and energy – day and middle of the night – to coordinate these shoots for their patients, often calling photographer after photographer to line up a shoot as soon as possible.

So we all continue this work, sometimes pulling back when emotionally necessary, but hopefully continuing to step forward when we can because it is so important.

You can learn more about NILMDTS here, with this beautiful story put together by The Today Show.

And then there’s the inspirational part….I learned some great news this week. One of my very first NILMDTS clients left a strong impression on me during our shoot, not only because of what she was going through but also because of how she handled the entire experience. We met up afterwards when she came in to pick up a beautiful framed piece that she had designed, and she gave me a little angel that stands proudly in our studio. I find it telling that this gift has been grabbed by babies, hugged by toddlers, knocked over my delivery men, and dropped, cracked & re-glued more than once. She still stands.

Interestingly enough, I received an email from this woman (the one of whom I think when I look at the angel, the one who still stands). I got it the day before this story aired on The Today Show. She is pregnant again, 20 weeks into a very healthy pregnancy, and the image from her daughter’s ultrasound made my heart skip a beat. I am so thrilled for she & her husband, their little baby girl and, of course, their family’s very own sweet angel…undoubtedly watching over them all.

13 responses to “Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep”

  1. Jodi says:

    Hello,

    I am a beginning photographer and am joining a similar group in west Michigan called "Whispers." I have my hospital volunteer training next week and sometime after that expect to have my first call. I wondered if you had any advice?

  2. Jodi says:

    Hello,

    I am a beginning photographer and am joining a similar group in west Michigan called "Whispers." I have my hospital volunteer training next week and sometime after that expect to have my first call. I wondered if you had any advice?

  3. Tamara Lackey says:

    Hi, Jodi – That’s great šŸ™‚ I’ll email you directly…

  4. Tamara Lackey says:

    Hi, Jodi – That’s great šŸ™‚ I’ll email you directly…

  5. SL says:

    Of all the wonderfully selfless things you do – THIS is truly an act of philathropy that few can appreciate. And for those few, you are an angel providing a gift they never thought they needed.

  6. SL says:

    Of all the wonderfully selfless things you do – THIS is truly an act of philathropy that few can appreciate. And for those few, you are an angel providing a gift they never thought they needed.

  7. Tamara Lackey says:

    SL – As much as I appreciate your sweet thoughts, I have to push this praise out more to those who do so much, much more for this organization. I already mentioned Aimee Bickers, there’s also the Executive Director Jessica Roe, and of course the amazing founders, Sandy Puc’ and Cheryl Haggard, who created this organization after their profound personal experience – you can read more on their site.

  8. Tamara Lackey says:

    SL – As much as I appreciate your sweet thoughts, I have to push this praise out more to those who do so much, much more for this organization. I already mentioned Aimee Bickers, there’s also the Executive Director Jessica Roe, and of course the amazing founders, Sandy Puc’ and Cheryl Haggard, who created this organization after their profound personal experience – you can read more on their site.

  9. Kim Shaw says:

    You are not only a gifted photographer, Tamara, but also an incredibly talented writer. This moved me to tears (the ugly snot-nosed sobbing kind) and I think what you all do through your work is so much more than just capturing moments…it’s reminding and inspiring people to find the joy in every single day, no matter what it brings. Kudos to you all and thank you for this blog!! May we all keep our angels close at heart.

  10. Kim Shaw says:

    You are not only a gifted photographer, Tamara, but also an incredibly talented writer. This moved me to tears (the ugly snot-nosed sobbing kind) and I think what you all do through your work is so much more than just capturing moments…it’s reminding and inspiring people to find the joy in every single day, no matter what it brings. Kudos to you all and thank you for this blog!! May we all keep our angels close at heart.

  11. Lisa says:

    I’m always so amazed by the way you make your heart bigger and bigger and bigger all the time…. and wonderful reminder of all that we have in our lives! ALL of the angels who represent and work for this organization are truly guided by love, and incredibly inspire it in others….

  12. Lisa says:

    I’m always so amazed by the way you make your heart bigger and bigger and bigger all the time…. and wonderful reminder of all that we have in our lives! ALL of the angels who represent and work for this organization are truly guided by love, and incredibly inspire it in others….

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